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Guest Post - 6 Personality Types and Ways to Motivate Them

Posted by Unknown on Tuesday, April 17, 2012

6 Personality Types and Ways to Motivate Them
By Elena Sessa
Originally heralding from northern California, Elena Sessa is working her way through college at San Jose State University as a certified personal trainer and fitness instructor. When she's not studying or training, she puts her passion for health and fitness to yet another good use by writing on these topics for Beachbody which provides popular workout videos and fitness products including P90X2 Workouts, P90X Certification, and Ultimate Reset.

When Obi Won Kenobi muttered, “The Force will be with you, always,the man knew what he was talking about. No, I’m not saying we all possess the ability to duel with lightsabers or to mind-control law enforcement officers into doing our bidding, but we all have a certain power inside us that allows us to achieve above and beyond. It’s called motivation. But unlike Star Wars, there’s more than one “Force” in the real world—different people require different forms of motivation. This is a list of 6 personality types and different ways to keep the Force strong within you.
1.)     “The Giver”: Always giving, never taking. You’re a people person who gets satisfaction from helping others. You deal with situations based off of how you feel and are externally focused.
What you need: Athletic support--and, no, I don’t mean a good sports bra--I mean from the people in your life. Having support from your family and friends will make all the difference in helping keep you on track and keep your motivation high. An exercise buddy will help motivate you to do something good for yourself and help others in the process.
2.)     The Power Player”: It’s your way or the highway. You are the type of person who is aggressive, assertive, and independent. You measure success by external rewards and love to be the leader.
              What you need: You need a challenge to be motivated! A triathlon or a marathon would be a great option because you are independent and driven to do well. Both require focus and hard work, which is right down your ally. Another option could be to take the lead and teach a fitness class. "Power players" make great fitness instructors. There are plenty of ways to become a certified fitness instructor, for example the P90X certification program. You can look into the P90X Certification here (http://www.beachbodycertification.com/p90x-certification)

3.)     The Nurturer: You are a mother at heart. You are internally focused and always want to believe the best in people. You aim to please and learn best by doing.
What you need: Being positive for others is easy for you; however it is sometimes difficult for you to be positive towards yourself. Feedback is an important aspect when trying to achieve goals because we need validation to be motivated. This includes positive feedback to others as well as yourself.
4.)     “The Mechanic”: You are a handy-man (or woman) with the drive to understand how things work. You are internally driven and deal with things rationally and logically. This personality type can get bored easily, so they need constant action to thrive.
What you need: You are athletic and have great hand eye coordination. Sports would motivate you to exercise and provide you with action and excitement to fill your adventurous spirit. Team sports are a good option because you are competitive and might work harder if you have another person to compare yourself to. 
5.)     “The Doer”: You’re energetic, independent-- a risk taker. This personality type lives in the moment and has the need for constant change. You are motivated to get things started, however you are not as motivated to finish.
What you need: This type of personality may run into trouble in the fitness setting because they want to Go! Go! Go! without listening to what their body tells them. Variety will help motivate you to exercise. Switching up your workouts will keep your mind and body challenged and focused.
6.)     “The Artist”: You are original, creative and reserved. This type of personality has the need to feel that they are living their life to how they feel is right, and to rebel against anything that conflicts with that goal. Because of this, they are generally not motivated to exercise.
              What you need: You need goals to be driven out of your comfort zone. Goal-setting theory suggests making goals that are SMART. In other words, they need to be: specific, measureable, achievable (yet challenging), realistic and time relevant. Trying activities such as yoga, dance or Pilates might interest your creative and free spirit.
Regardless of your personality type; there are always a way to motivate yourself--or others. Some people need a swift kick in their pants while others need nurturing to be able to succeed. Once you succeed at a goal; whether it is health, personal, or career related, you will feel self-confident and motivated to accomplish something else. But remember, keep up the positive attitude or there will be a great disturbance in the Force.

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Guest Post

Posted by Unknown on Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Chris from RunHundred.com brings us the top 10 workout songs for winter. Go ahead and sample a few. Let's get motivated to get moving!

Introducing Chris Lawhorn...

Traditionally, winter is the time of year when folks find it hardest to get out and exercise.  In the hopes of keeping folks motivated, readers from RunHundred.com--the web's most heavily-trafficked workout music blog--were polled regarding their favorite, current workout songs.  The resulting top 10 list has a little of what you'd expect—and a little you might not.  Flo Rida, who's no stranger to this list, shows up in two recent tracks.  Enrique Iglesias continues his transition from balladeer to club rocker.  And Kelly Clarkson, after faltering with the first single off her new album, bounced back ferociously with the second.

As for surprises, they're mostly entries from folks relatively new on the dance scene.  Highlights include songs from Tim Berg (who remixed his own track under his Avicii moniker), Skrillex (whose collaboration with Kaskade is the first dubstep track ever the make the Top 10), and Wolfgang Gartner (who's made the chart with a little help from the Black Eyed Peas' Will.I.Am).

Here's the full list: 


To find more workout songs--and hear next month's contenders--folks can check out the free database at RunHundred.com. Visitors can browse the song selections there by genre, tempo, and era--to find the music that best fits with their particular workout routine.


Contact:
Chris Lawhorn
Run Hundred
http://www.RunHundred.com



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Motivational Guest - Clint Cora

Posted by Unknown on Friday, October 14, 2011

Personal Improvement Included Housework

Since when does housework become part of personal improvement?

Like a lot of people out there, I just hate doing housework.  As a single guy, doing any type of housework is the last thing that I want to do.  But I know that if I put this off, my floors and counters will become dusty and my sinks will start getting soap scum as well as hard water deposits.

The water supply here in my town of Mississauga, Ontario is quite hard and deposits do build up on my kitchen and bathroom sinks rapidly.  And even though I don’t really do any messy cooking involving grease or oils, my stove range, microwave and kitchen counters do get messed up.

When my TV starts getting that gray film of dust, I know it’s time to do housework again which I just dread.  I tried putting up with some mess but then I lose some pride of my own home when house cleaning is neglected. I’m ashamed to let anybody see the inside of my house.

In previous times, it would take me half a day to do the entire house and like many folks, this would be on the weekends.  But I really don’t want to waste half of weekend day either.  So I needed another way.

Putting Personal Improvement Skills Into House Cleaning

So I came up with a way to make house cleaning easier for me.  Instead of doing the entire house at one shot with dusting, vacuuming and mopping the floors, I decided to break up housework into little parts.  To put the personal improvement spin on this, I looked for little time intervals I can access for doing these little spurts of house cleaning.

I identified two such opportunities in time.  The first is during TV commercials if I happen to be watching TV.  The other is when I take quick little breaks from work on my computer. These are ideal little chunks of time that I would otherwise waste.


Breaking Housework Into Little Chunks

So what I did was when the TV commercials came on, I dusted the room I was in.  I repeated dusting separate rooms and floors during each TV commercial break that by the end of the program, I finished all the dusting in my entire house.

I did the same thing with cleaning my bathrooms and kitchen too.  I used both TV commercials and little breaks from work to do one room at a time.  These little breaks were just the right amount of time allocated for house cleaning that I didn’t dread it as much.

I would also vacuum one room at a time or the stairs during a single break.  Again, with multiple little breaks, I got the entire house done.

This was how the personal improvement side factored in.  I was using better use of my time that otherwise would have been pretty unproductive.  Although I might have to spread out the entire house cleaning process over a few days, it was okay since this task didn’t seem so dreadful anymore when it was finally broken up into little pieces.

I no longer had to waste an entire half day on the weekends for house cleaning.  I could use this time for something else more fun, like taking my Lhasa Apso dogs out to the leash free dog park for example.

When I realized that over the course of a week, I had many more available little chunks of time that I could access, I eventually was able to fit more tasks into them since house cleaning didn’t require a week’s worth of breaks or TV commercials.  This was a big personal improvement for me as I was finding ways not only to do the tasks that I didn’t really like doing, but was able to fit them into my time efficiently.

Effective housework was actually something that I should have but forgot to put in as part of my action plans which I detailed in my book The Life Champion In You.  I will definitely add it in to solidfy this into my routines.

So when it comes to housework or other tasks that you hate, consider fitting them into little chunks of time that you can access.  It will make life easier for you.

By the way, I cleaned my entire second bathroom which is allocated as our dog room during a break I had when writing this particular blog post.

Clint Cora is a motivational speaker, author and Karate World Champion. See his FREE 3-part Personal Development Video Series to learn how to expand your comfort zones to conquer even your most daunting goals in life.
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Motivational Guest - Clint Cora

Posted by Unknown on Thursday, September 8, 2011


BANG!  I was still in bed when I heard that the other morning. Since I already heard that similar sound a few times this year, I knew that it was another fender-bender of a car crash outside. 
I went to the window facing the street and sure enough, there was a car stopped just past the intersection and another one that was actually OFF the road right on the corner pedestrian sidewalk area!
This second car must have been hit with enough force to send it off the road.  Fortunately, no pedestrians were on that corner at that time.  If this happened on a school day, this could have been very different.
What amazes me is that this is about the fourth or fifth such traffic accident at the same intersection this year.  It's usually when one car is trying to beat the traffic lights and another one is turning into the intersection, usually during morning or evening rush hours.

Always In A Rush Is A Symptom Of Poor Time Management

The drivers of the speeding vehicles who tried to outrun the amber (or even red) light were likely in a rush to get somewhere.  They are the ones who feel extra frustrated especially when it seems that each time they approach a traffic light, it's turning amber or red.   
I've had this feeling -- haven't you?

The need to rush somewhere especially during rush hours is a symptom of poor time management.   Since I've been down this road before so to speak, I've learned a few things to avoid the need to rush.  

Here are some useful tips.
1) Factor in additional travel time in the morning, especially if you have snow days
2) Wake up earlier in the morning and go to bed earlier the night before
3) Prepare as much of what you need for the day during the night before by setting out your work materials and wardrobe (do this for kids too)
4) If possible, schedule appointments and travel outside of rush hours
5) Relax during driving knowing it's better to be arrive late and safe
6) Enjoy music or an educational audio 
7) Do NOT try to beat the traffic lights

Most car accidents are TOTALLY preventable.  If only individuals learn not to be in so much of a rush, a lot of damage, injuries and grief could be avoided.  

This is always a very expensive lesson for those who were the offending drivers as they not only put themselves at risk, but also other innocent drivers, passengers and pedestrians in danger.
We have all heard that by improving our time management habits, we will become more productive.  But now we also know that better time management in terms of advance preparation can also possibly save lives and limbs. 

And if you need an audio to listen to while driving, there's always the audio version of 'The Life Champion In You'
Be safe out there and arrive at your destination in one piece.

Clint Cora is a motivational speaker, author and Karate World Champion. See his FREE 3-part Personal Development Video Series to learn how to expand your comfort zones to conquer even your most daunting goals in life.
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Frugal Friday - From Living On A Dime

Posted by Unknown on Thursday, September 1, 2011


How To Organize Your Children's Schoolwork

School has started in many places, which means more mounds of paper clutter to keep under control. Here are some tips to help keep all of that school paperwork from multiplying, reproducing and generally taking over your home and your life.
  • Set a certain time and place to go through your kids' backpacks and paperwork each day. Use this time to sign all those papers you need to sign, mark upcoming meetings or events on the calendar and sort through everything.
    The best time and place to organize schoolwork will vary for each family. For us, it was best to do it the moment the kids walked through the door while it was fresh on their minds. I would have a snack ready for them, they would explain the papers to me and while I was dealing with them (signing, writing on the calendar or admiring their handiwork), they would tell me about their day.
    Then I would return everything that needed to go back into their backpacks, trash the rest or put it in a special place or folder. This helps prevent things from getting tossed on the counter or table where they are eventually lost or forgotten.


  • Of course you will need a calendar and/or small bulletin board or dry erase board.
    My calendar has very large squares where I simply mark what needs to be done. If there is something very important that I must not forget no matter what, I mark it in red, but I write everything else in pencil in case I need to change it. Then I can just erase it and make the necessary changes.
    There have been times when I used a purple pen if I wanted the kids to remember something. I read about a study which found that people will remember things better when marked in purple.
    Use different colored markers or pens for different things. For example, one child's events will all be in green, all dentist appointments are in blue or whatever works best for you.

    Jill Cooper and Tawra Kellam are frugal living experts and the authors of the Dining On A Dime Cookbook. Dining On A Dime will help you save money on groceries and get out of debt by cooking quick and simple homemade meals. For free tips visit http://www.LivingOnADime.com
     

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Motivation Monday

Posted by Unknown on Monday, August 8, 2011

Today I bring you more from our motivational friend Clint Cora. Check out these great links...

Clint Cora is a motivational speaker, author and Karate World Champion. See his FREE 3-part Personal Development Video Series to learn how to expand your comfort zones to conquer even your most daunting goals in life.
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Motivational Guest - Clint Cora

Posted by Unknown on Friday, August 5, 2011

An Unlikely Gardener

I have to admit that for most of my life, I never had any interest in gardening or even plants in general. I don’t even own any indoor plants at home because I think plants attract bugs and I hate bugs. I’m a motivational speaker, snow skier, sports car enthusiast and Karate World Champion – a most unlikely gardener.

So for some reason, maybe because of the recent surge in popularity, I decided to try out vegetable gardening for the first time ever. I was a bit apprehensive because of my sparse knowledge of plants but after some preliminary online research including watching a few gardening videos on YouTube, I was on my way to the gardening center to buy some seeds and planters.

This was back in late May. After about a week, I started to see some seedlings appearing. Then a bad thunderstorm practically wiped them out as some of my planters got flooded. A few weeks of really hot weather followed and some of the surviving plants dried up and died.

I thought that this veggie garden project was going to be a complete failure. But I applied some of my motivation principles, which includes learning from mistakes. In this case, I learned about proper drainage and putting plants in the shade when necessary.

After some adjustments and adding some new soil and seeds, the plants started to grow. However, the fastest growing ones didn’t seem like anything in the seed package photos. I later learned that they were weeds and soon after I pulled them out, most of my plants started to grow quite well, much to my surprise.

By the end of July, I had my first harvest of beans and lettuce. The first salad I made from this harvest was absolutely heavenly. I didn’t know that a salad could taste this fresh!

Here is a video of my first ever vegetable garden at the time when I took my first harvest.



My example certainly shows that if I could do this, then pretty well anybody can grow a simply vegetable garden at home and get the freshest salads ever.

Feel free to leave your comments below on your thoughts.

Clint Cora is a motivational speaker, author and Karate World Champion. See his FREE 3-part Personal Development Video Series to learn how to expand your comfort zones to conquer even your most daunting goals in life.
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Motivation Monday - Guest Submission

Posted by Unknown on Sunday, July 24, 2011

Is Extreme Couponing Worth It?
by Jill Cooper
http://www.LivingOnADime.com

Jaime Writes:
"I recently saw a special on the TLC cable channel called "Extreme Couponing" where people use coupons to stockpile grocery items, which they get nearly for free. I would love to hear your thoughts about it."

I have seen that show. I have no problem with using coupons even though I sometimes sound like I don't like them. As a matter of fact I used to be an "extreme" couponer. I would go the to store armed with my coupons and would often get my groceries for free or for very very little money. I loved it. I would even get a "high" from it and be so excited. I could hardly wait until the next time I went to the store so I could do it again.

It wasn't until years later when I couldn't get coupons anymore and lived in a town where I couldn't use them that I realized the stress I had been under while I was using coupons and the effect it all had on me while I was doing it.

I don't have a problem with couponing but extreme couponing has me concerned.

Let me pause right here and say please don't e-mail me and say, "You don't know my situation. I don't have a problem with anything you mentioned and I coupon all the time." That's fine. There are exceptions to my rule and you might have circumstances in your life that make it easier for you to engage in extreme couponing so, if this describes you, I am not talking about you.

I am talking to the thousands who feel guilty, like they are failures in some way because they don't jump on the bandwagon and start clipping every coupon in sight. When riding on a bandwagon you can run into lots of potholes, which advocates of something don't always tell you about.

Most things, when done in the extreme, are not good. You have to have balance in life. What happens to a set of scales when you add way to much to one side? It can cause the scale to topple over, creating a chaotic mess.

Here are some things I found out about extreme couponing in my own life and from watching others:

Even when I was well organized, it still caused me a lot of stress when I went to the store. I had to keep track of so much -- Did I get the right size milk so I can get the free cereal? Was it the right brand? Was it sugar free or regular? Do I have the coupon for the milk? Was it the 14.5 oz. size and not the 15.4 oz. package?

Do they even have the item in stock? Many times, when an "extreme" deal comes on the scene, it is gone before you can get it. I'm sick and I don't have the energy to go back to the store several times to get a deal. Doing this with so many of the items I shopped for was stressful.

Then, when I got to the checkout, I had to watch every item like a hawk - Did I get the two cans of beans to get this bacon free? Did this item not have a coupon? Am I a coupon short? ...and on and on.

Half the time I had to convince the store clerk that, yes, this coupon can be used with that item. When you have 50 items you are doing all of this for, it gets tiring.

To add to the stress, there were always people in line behind me making it known that they weren't happy with the holdup I always caused.

These were just a couple of the little things that made extreme couponing stressful at the grocery store itself.

At home, before I left, I would spend ages clipping and sorting my coupons, putting them in order to make the shopping easier. Then, when I came home and found I had bought something without a coupon or had forgotten to give them a coupon, I would be so upset at myself.

I didn't realize until after I stopped doing extreme couponing how much it controlled me emotionally. It was like an addiction.

On the show you don't always get all of the real information. They don't add all of the expenses to give a true amount of the savings. For example:

I paid almost $100 a year for a newspaper subscription to get my coupons. (Yes, I know you can get the coupons free off of the Internet now but I am talking about adding up the expenses and the newspaper happened to be one of mine).

On one extreme couponing show, two people took a day off of work just to go shopping. If they make say $20 an hour that was $320 they lost from not working. If they saved $920 on groceries you have to subtract the $320 and that meant they only saved $600.

A lot of those people buy coupons off the Internet. If you do this, you should subtract that cost from your savings.

You should also add in the hours you spent organizing, clipping, searching for or printing the coupons. At different times, I have made $25 an hour on my business so if I spent 4 hours couponing instead it would cost me $100 from my business. You have to take that off of the amount saved or you're fooling yourself about the savings. Yes, I know a lot of people clip coupons in their spare time and if you truly have so much spare time that it's worth it then that's ok. In that case, it's like working another job.

It may sound exciting but, like so many things, it can get out of control.

One couple had enough deodorant for more than 100 years. I know some people give it away but it still took lots of time, energy and thought to deal with all of that deodorant. Then the people had to pay for shelving to store it (another expense), they had to insure it (more expense), sort it, stack it, put the newer things toward the back, etc. They went to all of that effort for deodorant they probably won't even use.

There is an old saying-- Beware of things that sound too good to be true. At the risk of sounding negative, there really are very few "free" things in life. There usually is a certain amount of work involved.

Lastly, I hate to have all of my eggs in one basket. I learned how to shop on clearance, how to shop at Aldi and how to stretch the food I did buy and not waste it. That way, if I couldn't use coupons, I had other means of saving.

-Jill


Jill Cooper and Tawra Kellam are frugal living experts and the authors of the Dining On A Dime Cookbook. Dining On A Dime will help you save money on groceries and get out of debt by cooking quick and simple homemade meals. For free tips visit http://www.LivingOnADime.com
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Motivation Monday: Motivational Guest - Clint Cora

Posted by Unknown on Sunday, July 17, 2011

Diversity, inclusion and equity are important topics in today's society. However, sometimes these are thought of as boring, politically correct areas important in companies and doesn't always grab public attention. Diversity to many people, especially from media, just doesn't seem to be a very sexy topic.

However, diversity can certainly become a sexy topic because certain skills developed in this area can make a person more attractive and sexy. This is a point I make in all my diversity talks and I prove this by involving the audience in a really fun way.

I tell the ladies in the audience that I will present profiles of two different men. Bachelor number one likes sports and drinks beer, ie., the 'Sports & Beer' guy. But he loves sports so much that if given the chance, he will ramble on and on with NFL or NBA statistics all night long during a date. He won't want to talk about anything else once he starts talking about sports.

The Sports & Beer guy is also a typical 'meat and potatoes' type of man, preferring to stick with very standard cuisine with a few bottles of beer of course (this is certainly a guy who doesn't read the recipes on The Motivation Station). This guy will not be willing to venture into any ethnic restaurant and doesn't know too much about other cultures. He hasn't traveled outside of North America much.

Bachelor number two also like sports and beer but unlike bachelor number one, he has traveled to many different places around the world. He has been exposed to many different foreign cultures, people, food, customs and languages. He might even be able to speak a foreign language. This man is definitely more 'worldly' than the first one.

Unlike the Sports & Beer guy, the Mr. Worldly enjoys experiencing ethnic cuisines and feels very comfortable in any ethnic restaurant. He does like a good steak every now and then but also likes to try out many other types of food from different cultures.

I then ask the women to choose which bachelor they think would be a more interesting date based on just these characteristics and not surprising, most ladies in my audiences always overwhelmingly vote in favor for Mr. Worldly.

This proves that if a man immerses himself with culture and develops the diversity skills to be able to interact well with people from different cultures, he will probably be considered more sexy than other men who are much more narrow in their cultural exposures. A diverse environment will allow a person to experience many different cultures if one is willing to.

This will work both ways as well since more cultured and sophisticated women can also appear sexier than those who are not adventurous enough to appreciate diversity in their lives. Let's face it, anybody who has experienced the world is always more interesting to talk to compared to somebody who hasn't ventured out of the home state or province. This proves that diversity is indeed sexy. On a more practical level, being effective in a diverse working environment is now considered beneficial to both your career and personal life.

Clint Cora is a motivational speaker, author and Karate World Champion. Get his free 3-part Personal Development Video Series to help you expand your comfort zone.

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Posted by Unknown on Monday, June 20, 2011


Most Important Skills For Careers And Businesses 
 By Clint Cora

"It’s always great to see students study hard to get good grades.   Decent grades will help guarantee a bright future academically and for career.  Top grades will enable graduates to get their foot in the door in the fields of their choice.

  However, after more than twenty years working in the corporate sector, I can say that grades and even technical skills do not determine how successful a person will be professionally.  Instead, the most important set of skills that will determine how far one will go in his or her career (or small business) involves dealing with people, ie., people skills.

  People skills or soft skills as they are sometimes known, are how effective one deals with many different types of people on a daily basis.  The wider the range of others in terms of ages, cultures and company levels that one can deal with, the better that person’s people skills.  

It doesn’t matter which field it is but the most successful individuals are not necessarily the ones who had the highest school grades or are the most technically gifted.  Instead, the top stars in each field are the ones with the best people skills. 
 

Unfortunately, people skills are not usually taught in classrooms at any educational level.  So many students who end up spending all their time and energies during their school years to maximize their grades do not end up with decent people skills, especially if these skills were not developed outside of the classroom.  In effect, their development was unbalanced too much towards pure academics. 

Once these individuals enter the workforce, they will soon realize that those with superior people skills will end up moving up the corporate ladder faster.  Their competition will get promoted through the ranks past them.   If they are lucky, after a few years of learning the hard way, these individuals will learn to develop much needed soft skills and hopefully, management will notice their improvement in social interactions at the office enough to warrant promotions.  

The same thing with those who start small businesses.  Better people skills will often result in more business.

  However, most folks in this situation will not be so lucky.  They are either too set in their ways to change or don’t even recognize their own personal deficiencies.  These individuals will have reached a ceiling in their fields relatively quickly in their careers.  

Fortunately, this problem can be addressed.  For those already in the workforce, people can utilize seminars as part of on-going professional education on soft skills including diversity training.  All management potential candidates as well as current management should attend to further develop these skills.
 
Parents also need to be educated so that they foster a more balanced development for their children.  Academics are important but kids need to learn soft skills as part of their overall development."
Clint Cora is a motivational speaker, author and Karate World Champion. 

Visit http://www.clintcora.com/freeinspirationpersonalgrowth.html for a FREE 3-part Personal Development Video Series.
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Motivation Monday - The Power of No

Posted by Unknown on Monday, June 13, 2011

Hi There! I’m Kim from Recipes To Run On. And I am so happy to have been invited to guest post here at The Motivation Station. Thank You Martha!

I’m a Wife and Mom who, with a love of cooking for my family and friends, started a blog last summer called Quit Eating Out. My intention was to treasure my recipes, share them with others and to connect with other women in an online community. I had found myself starting to rely on restaurants to feed my family because I wasn’t planning meals ahead of time. Thus, the concept of Quit Eating Out {Recipes to Make Dining Out A Choice, Not A Chore} was born.

Meal planning and preparation quickly drew us back to our family dinner table. And I cannot stress what a blessing this time is for families. If you don’t already plan and prepare meals to share as a family, I urge you to begin investing in this area.

But, by February of this year, I realized that simply planning meals wasn’t enough. My love of cooking indulgent, heavy dishes and desserts was not fueling my family to be their best. And as a result, my husband and I had reached our heaviest and most unhealthy weight ever.

So it was in February that my man and I decided to make changes. We began Weight Watchers online. And we gave up being sedentary and started moving. With a debilitating back disease, my husband searched for exercises that would be best for him and began Reformer Pilates and Cycling. I started running (initially using the Couch~to~the~5K program) and joined a gym.

If you’ve ever gone from a sedentary life of eating whatever sounds good to making healthy exercise and food choices ~ you know it’s not the easiest transition. For a lot of us, food can be something we use to soothe our hurts, treat ourselves to as rewards, or be something we just can’t imagine giving up. Our natural flesh wants what it wants.

So after years of eating whatever I pleased, I remember a day in February when I realized I needed to tell myself, “No!”. No one was home. No one would’ve known what I ate or didn’t eat or how much. And in that moment, I realized that it was all up to me. Did I really want to make healthy changes to my life? Did I really want to lose the extra weight I had gained? Did I want to look good and feel good? Did I want to be a role model for my family? Did I really want to change?

We can all use whatever excuse we want. We can hide in the dark and think we are getting away with what isn’t seen. But the bottom line comes down to this: Do I want to be healthy or do I want to feed my flesh?

I’m so grateful and thankful to say that I chose to tell myself, “No!”. What does that mean? Well, it doesn’t mean that I eat perfectly and exercise 7 days a week. And I think what “No!” looks like may be slightly different for everyone. For me, it has meant learning to stop eating when I’m full. Regardless of how good something is. It means journaling everything I eat (especially important when I was first starting). This is where Weight Watchers was wonderful.... It was such a good illustration of where I was overeating. Using my points was critical in my weight loss. WW was also great because it gave me freedom to splurge. Saying "No" to my flesh also meant getting my lazy self MOVING. Running, Biking, Walking, Going to the Gym.

In this power of saying “No!” to myself, I’ve gained SO much. Food is no longer my reward. Yes, I enjoy indulging myself occasionally. But, my bigger rewards are how I look and feel. Not carrying around the baggage of excess weight frees you to be more energetic and alive. My rewards come from my kiddos cheering me on at racing events. And my rewards come from knowing I’m setting a good example for my family that will make lasting impacts on their lives.

If you struggle with food and exercise choices, know that you are not alone. No one {not even the crazy fit folks} has some natural inclination of being healthy. It’s a choice. Every single time I go out for a run or choose a salad instead of a burger it’s a choice. And not one that feels natural to me. But oh, the reward is so much bigger than you can imagine.

I recently redesigned my blog from Quit Eating Out {to} Recipes To Run On. I’ve shared my journey in my posts. And, I now include WW Points Plus values in all the recipes I share. I did this as one of the ways I’m holding myself accountable to my healthy choices. Because I know that I’m only as successful as the choices I make today. I don’t want this to be a phase, I want this to be a lifestyle.

Thanks again for allowing me to share my journey here at The Motivation Station! Wishing you much success in your journey....
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