HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ONE AND ALL!
Posted by Unknown on Friday, December 31, 2010
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Frugal Fridays With Jen- Meeting Frugal Goals
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This week, I discuss what our financial goals are for the year- and how I plan to meet them.
Mr S and I don't exchange Christmas gifts, but we do enjoy treating ourselves to something instead. This year, Mr S spent his gift money from his parents on a Blu-Ray player. Thanks to that, we just got rid of cable today, and I am switching our phone and internet provider as well to reduce our total costs by $100 a month. Even if we had paid for the new player ourselves, it would have paid for itself within 4-5 months.
For myself, I indulged in a few books. The Veganomicon, chock full of vegan friendly recipes my dairy-allergic son can eat, and this starter kit from Dave Ramsey. The mister and I don't have credit card debt, but we do have my car loan, student loan, and home equity loan to pay off- all while paying more than our mortgage in day care a month ($1500!!!!) once this new baby is born. In order to pay these off within 18 months- and then buy a needed new truck for my husband- we need to tighten our belts even more than we already do. To that end, I have instituted a cash-only system starting this week, which means that today, despite falling asleep last night without baking bread for this morning's french toast, we ate oatmeal instead of running out to the specialty store for a loaf of fresh baked bread. I now have bread baking and we will eat the special french toast tomorrow. It just isn't in the budget for extras with guests in town this weekend. And I have to admit- I enjoy the thrill of the challenge to stick to $70 a week in groceries- including organic produce, milk, and meat, formula, soy milk, and almond milk.
A few more frugal fixes we are instituting this year:
* Once I have the baby, and restart my fibromyalgia medication, I will drop the massage therapy I get to manage my pain to once a month only.
* I will take advantage of the free gym and wellness center at work, exercise videos from Netflix, or the good old fashioned outdoors to get well after the baby comes.
* I have scoured my friend Diane's post on saving gas money to help reduce our gas costs a smidge. I finally found a nearby gas station that gives a discount using my Kroger rewards, and am taking advantage of my work's generous gas discount at Speedway stores- it gives me $0.06 off per gallon when I use their prepaid discount card. If I transfer my prescriptions to Kroger, I can get $1 off per gallon there as well.
* My husband's truck can only safely hold one child in it- and I am making the sacrifice of doing both the day care drop-off and pick-up for the next year, until the car I bought 9 months ago is paid off, as well as our home loan. I can do this for 8 months, right?
* My in-laws generously bought our daughter's furniture, and a friend donated all of her daughter's clothes to us (we are set until age 4!), so we only really need a mattress, gliding rocking chair, and a few decor items for her room. My Babies R Us rewards card just sent me a 20% off coupon for furniture, and I have saved $95 in gift cards I've won this year to use towards buying the glider. With these, my chair will be $200 less than it would have been. Anyone know an easy cheap way to make letters spelling her name for her wall?
* We are not vacationing anywhere this year.
* I have been getting a lot of deals on amazon.com lately, for organic foods and diapers. I plan on learning how to use Swagbucks to earn free gift cards from amazon.com to pay for these and help me save the weekly money I've earmarked for food, entertainment, and kids' items.
* We are planning a garage sale for the spring- and have loads of stuff in the basement to sell. Hopefully enough stuff to make a few hundred towards our goals.
What about you? What are your financial goals, and what methods are you using to meet them?
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Mr S and I don't exchange Christmas gifts, but we do enjoy treating ourselves to something instead. This year, Mr S spent his gift money from his parents on a Blu-Ray player. Thanks to that, we just got rid of cable today, and I am switching our phone and internet provider as well to reduce our total costs by $100 a month. Even if we had paid for the new player ourselves, it would have paid for itself within 4-5 months.
For myself, I indulged in a few books. The Veganomicon, chock full of vegan friendly recipes my dairy-allergic son can eat, and this starter kit from Dave Ramsey. The mister and I don't have credit card debt, but we do have my car loan, student loan, and home equity loan to pay off- all while paying more than our mortgage in day care a month ($1500!!!!) once this new baby is born. In order to pay these off within 18 months- and then buy a needed new truck for my husband- we need to tighten our belts even more than we already do. To that end, I have instituted a cash-only system starting this week, which means that today, despite falling asleep last night without baking bread for this morning's french toast, we ate oatmeal instead of running out to the specialty store for a loaf of fresh baked bread. I now have bread baking and we will eat the special french toast tomorrow. It just isn't in the budget for extras with guests in town this weekend. And I have to admit- I enjoy the thrill of the challenge to stick to $70 a week in groceries- including organic produce, milk, and meat, formula, soy milk, and almond milk.
A few more frugal fixes we are instituting this year:
* Once I have the baby, and restart my fibromyalgia medication, I will drop the massage therapy I get to manage my pain to once a month only.
* I will take advantage of the free gym and wellness center at work, exercise videos from Netflix, or the good old fashioned outdoors to get well after the baby comes.
* I have scoured my friend Diane's post on saving gas money to help reduce our gas costs a smidge. I finally found a nearby gas station that gives a discount using my Kroger rewards, and am taking advantage of my work's generous gas discount at Speedway stores- it gives me $0.06 off per gallon when I use their prepaid discount card. If I transfer my prescriptions to Kroger, I can get $1 off per gallon there as well.
* My husband's truck can only safely hold one child in it- and I am making the sacrifice of doing both the day care drop-off and pick-up for the next year, until the car I bought 9 months ago is paid off, as well as our home loan. I can do this for 8 months, right?
* My in-laws generously bought our daughter's furniture, and a friend donated all of her daughter's clothes to us (we are set until age 4!), so we only really need a mattress, gliding rocking chair, and a few decor items for her room. My Babies R Us rewards card just sent me a 20% off coupon for furniture, and I have saved $95 in gift cards I've won this year to use towards buying the glider. With these, my chair will be $200 less than it would have been. Anyone know an easy cheap way to make letters spelling her name for her wall?
* We are not vacationing anywhere this year.
* I have been getting a lot of deals on amazon.com lately, for organic foods and diapers. I plan on learning how to use Swagbucks to earn free gift cards from amazon.com to pay for these and help me save the weekly money I've earmarked for food, entertainment, and kids' items.
* We are planning a garage sale for the spring- and have loads of stuff in the basement to sell. Hopefully enough stuff to make a few hundred towards our goals.
What about you? What are your financial goals, and what methods are you using to meet them?
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Thursdays With Linda: Happy New Year
Posted by Unknown on Thursday, December 30, 2010
Recent research shows that while 52% of participants in a resolution study were confident of success with their goals, only 12% actually achieved their goals. Men achieved their goal 22% more often when they engaged in goal setting, (a system where small measurable goals are being set, such as, a pound a week, instead of saying "lose weight"), while women succeeded 10% more when they made their goals public and got support from their friends. (found at Wikipedia)
New Years Day Traditions:
1. Kissing your loved one at midnight. Start off the New Year expressing love to last through the New Year. Kiss someone else and have your loved one mad at you for a year.
2. First footer. That's a Scottish term. A first footer is the first person to enter your house on January 1st. Preferably, he should be about 210 pounds and tall, not cross eyed and have dark hair. You have to let him in (as opposed to him using a key). He should bring gifts like coal (to stoke the fire because it's cold in Scotland in January). He's got to come in one door and leave from another door. Don't let redheads or blondes be your first footer - they bring bad luck!.
3. Don't do laundry on New Year's Day! A family member could be 'washed away' (die) in the following months.
4. Don't pay back loans or lend money on New Year's Day. That means you will do that all year long!
5. Do something related to your work on New Years Day. And be successful at it! Don't do a lot of it though, because that would be bad luck.
1. Kissing your loved one at midnight. Start off the New Year expressing love to last through the New Year. Kiss someone else and have your loved one mad at you for a year.
2. First footer. That's a Scottish term. A first footer is the first person to enter your house on January 1st. Preferably, he should be about 210 pounds and tall, not cross eyed and have dark hair. You have to let him in (as opposed to him using a key). He should bring gifts like coal (to stoke the fire because it's cold in Scotland in January). He's got to come in one door and leave from another door. Don't let redheads or blondes be your first footer - they bring bad luck!.
3. Don't do laundry on New Year's Day! A family member could be 'washed away' (die) in the following months.
4. Don't pay back loans or lend money on New Year's Day. That means you will do that all year long!
5. Do something related to your work on New Years Day. And be successful at it! Don't do a lot of it though, because that would be bad luck.
- Eating noodles at midnight is customary at Buddhist temples in Japan.
- A German/Pennsylvania Dutch tradition is to eat pork and sauerkraut on New Year's day for good luck.
- It is the tradition of Bosnia & Croatia (both of former Yugoslavia) to eat what is called "Sarma" or beef wrapped tightly in cabbage to bring good luck in health and wealth for the upcoming year.
- It is a Cuban tradition to eat 12 grapes at the stroke of midnight. The 12 grapes signify the last twelve months of the year.
- German folklore says that eating herring at the stroke of midnight will bring luck for the next year.
- Eating pickled herring as the first bite of the New Year brings good luck to those of Polish descent.
- In the southern United States, it is believed eating black eyed peas on New Year's eve will bring luck for the coming year.
- Also from the south comes the custom of eating greens such as cabbage, collard greens, mustard greens, kale or spinach to bring money.
- One more from the Southerners: eating cornbread will bring wealth.
- The Southern custom of eating greens can be found in other cultures as well, although the cabbage can take many forms, such as sauerkraut or even kimchee.
- In the Philippines, it is important to have food on the table at midnight in order to insure an abundance of food in the upcoming year.
Happy New Year…
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A Moment to Reflect
Posted by Unknown on Tuesday, December 28, 2010
Welcome to Wednesdays at The Motivation Station and thank you for joining us on this last week of 2010.
All over the newspapers and TV, you see reports and articles about New Year's Resolutions. Not suprisingly, only a small portion of resolutions are kept. I think it's because motivation and true lasting change come from inspiration, not from some external turn of the calendar page.
When I reflect on the changes I have made this past year, and all through my life, I am reminded of the power of the mind, body, and spirit in reaching our goals.
Recently, I read an interview with Deepak Chopra where he recommends that you spend 5 to 10 minutes every day, or at least once a week, in quiet contemplation. Take this time to ask yourself simple questions to help you reflect on who you are, what you want, and what is your life's purpose and contribution.
Mr.Chopra doesn't ask you to know or find the answers to these questions, but the process of reflection and contemplation helps move you to the answers and also to meaningful behavior change. So, instead of willpower, denial, and hard work, reflective self inquiry leads to change. Truly an inspiring and practical thought.
My challenge to myself in 2011, (and I am starting right now), is to spend at least 5 minutes a day to contemplate and reflect, and mostly be silent, so I can heed the divine within, and all around us.
I invite you to join me in this quiet contemplation to gain insight, motivation, and inspiration.
Blessings of Health and Happiness in the New Year to you and yours, Martha @ A Sense of Humor is Essential
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All over the newspapers and TV, you see reports and articles about New Year's Resolutions. Not suprisingly, only a small portion of resolutions are kept. I think it's because motivation and true lasting change come from inspiration, not from some external turn of the calendar page.
When I reflect on the changes I have made this past year, and all through my life, I am reminded of the power of the mind, body, and spirit in reaching our goals.
Recently, I read an interview with Deepak Chopra where he recommends that you spend 5 to 10 minutes every day, or at least once a week, in quiet contemplation. Take this time to ask yourself simple questions to help you reflect on who you are, what you want, and what is your life's purpose and contribution.
Mr.Chopra doesn't ask you to know or find the answers to these questions, but the process of reflection and contemplation helps move you to the answers and also to meaningful behavior change. So, instead of willpower, denial, and hard work, reflective self inquiry leads to change. Truly an inspiring and practical thought.
My challenge to myself in 2011, (and I am starting right now), is to spend at least 5 minutes a day to contemplate and reflect, and mostly be silent, so I can heed the divine within, and all around us.
I invite you to join me in this quiet contemplation to gain insight, motivation, and inspiration.
Blessings of Health and Happiness in the New Year to you and yours, Martha @ A Sense of Humor is Essential
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New Years Resolutions!
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Sorry for the late post. I set it to 12:00am on 12/28 last night... hmmmm
It's time to stamp in those resolutions for the new year!
It's time to stamp in those resolutions for the new year!
Keep them simple and obtainable...yet specific.
Kris's Resolutions:
1. Continue Personal Training Sessions
(Don't say your resolution is to lose weight. Pick something less vague that by actually doing can result in weight loss!)
2. Keep apartment cleaner by not leaving wet towels on floor or dishes in sink before bed and before I leave in the morning.
(I could have said "Keep apartment cleaner" but what does that mean? Be specific with one or two things that can make a seemingly robust resolution simpler!)
3. Read more books.
4. Finish more Web Design projects.
(anyone need a blog lift?)
5. Find more pleasure in simple things like taking naps and baths!
What are your resolutions?
Remember, aim for things that are important to YOU!
This isn't a list of ways for people to like you more... or less.
There are different sites that say it takes 21 days to form a habit, some say 18, and others almost 200 days. Just take your resolutions one day at a time. Ask yourself if you can squeeze in any bit of your resolution to really let the routine settle in with your daily lives!
Happy New Year!
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Motivation Monday - On our way to the new year
Posted by Unknown on Monday, December 27, 2010
Christmas is over, the new year is rapidly approaching. It's time to get ready!
My holiday season has been spent under construction...
Here I am teaching my son how to use a chipper to get all the old thin-set off the floors after ripping out the tile. He's one hard worker, and has much more endurance than I do these days with that kind of hard physical work (by the way, only in Florida will you see someone in a jacket and flip flops at the same time, LOL)
I have my home in a massive mess from celebrating the holidays and general neglect while all the construction has been going on over at my mother's home. I finally got all her belongings sorted through and packed up and then the renovations immediately began. I only have one week from today to get things in order before I return to work - no time to waste!
I don't know about you, but for me I think today would be a great day to "GIT" motivated and organized! For those of you who are somewhat new to TMS you may not know what a GIT Challenge is - GIT stands for Get It Together!
The idea with the GIT Challenge is to play catch up with whatever we need to get done. Just leave a comment saying you'll play along, minimize this post so you can easily come back to it throughout the day, stop what you are doing (meaning get off the computer and stop procrastinating!), take an hour right now to catch up on things you need to do and work as fast as you can!
Come back every hour or two and leave a comment with your progress. Check out what other participants have accomplished - all in the comment section, no blog hopping necessary. After updating, get back to work for another hour or so until you're done for the day. We always accomplish so much during these challenges!
Jump in anytime, there's no special time to start or finish and no rules. It's fun working together - join us! What will you "GIT" done today?
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My holiday season has been spent under construction...
Here I am teaching my son how to use a chipper to get all the old thin-set off the floors after ripping out the tile. He's one hard worker, and has much more endurance than I do these days with that kind of hard physical work (by the way, only in Florida will you see someone in a jacket and flip flops at the same time, LOL)
I have my home in a massive mess from celebrating the holidays and general neglect while all the construction has been going on over at my mother's home. I finally got all her belongings sorted through and packed up and then the renovations immediately began. I only have one week from today to get things in order before I return to work - no time to waste!
I don't know about you, but for me I think today would be a great day to "GIT" motivated and organized! For those of you who are somewhat new to TMS you may not know what a GIT Challenge is - GIT stands for Get It Together!
The idea with the GIT Challenge is to play catch up with whatever we need to get done. Just leave a comment saying you'll play along, minimize this post so you can easily come back to it throughout the day, stop what you are doing (meaning get off the computer and stop procrastinating!), take an hour right now to catch up on things you need to do and work as fast as you can!
Come back every hour or two and leave a comment with your progress. Check out what other participants have accomplished - all in the comment section, no blog hopping necessary. After updating, get back to work for another hour or so until you're done for the day. We always accomplish so much during these challenges!
Jump in anytime, there's no special time to start or finish and no rules. It's fun working together - join us! What will you "GIT" done today?
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R & R for Sunday, December 26th, 2010
Posted by Unknown on Sunday, December 26, 2010
Walk away from it until you're stronger. All your problems will be there when you get back, but you'll be better able to cope. ~Lady Bird Johnson
R and R Tip #29; Release yourself and Rest assured you will be so much better!
Be willing to separate yourself from compulsive activity before you come apart at the seams! Release yourself from drudgery and stress.
If you are feeling compelled to do so much that you are physically worn out, you may be driven instead of led. Remember, you have to come apart from a busy routine before you come apart yourself. You have to get away from everything before you come apart physically, mentally, and emotionally. Give yourself time to get a good night’s sleep. If you are this tired, it is time to re-energize your life. Prune away the things that wear you out
Now that Christmas has come and gone our thoughts will be turning to New Years and resolutions for the new year. I'm going to challenge each and every one of you and that includes myself too, to live a life with less stress and more relaxation this year.
New Year's Eve ... a festive beginning to a new year. It's a time to take stock and decide to move toward a happier, more organized, thinner New Year. But what looks so easy as the minute hand approaches midnight falls away in the cold light of January days.
For most of us, New Year's resolutions die a slow and quiet death. They're tossed aside, along with the party hats and noisemakers. As January winds down, so does motivation, energy and desire for change.
We all have things that must be done. Often demands are placed on us that we really want nothing to do with but none the less we must do. Taking care of ourselves is one way that we can be assured that we are up to handling most any task.
Take the time to rest, relax, restore, refresh and renew your self in order to be the best person you can be. Life is far to valuable to waste a moment of it and when we are prepared, any thing is possible! Within you can find the strength to cope.
It's time to greet the New Year with new enthusiasm... and may each new dawn brings the freshness in your life like fresh morning dew... and may every morning be like starting up a brand new day.
On this note I'm Wishing you a very...
A VERY HAPPY NEW YEAR!
See you all next Sunday!
Love, Live, Laugh and Be Happy!
ma
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WE WISH YOU A MERRY CHRISTMAS, WE WISH YOU A MERRY CHRISTMAS...
Posted by Unknown on Friday, December 24, 2010
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Frugal Fridays With Jen- Christmas Dinner Leftovers
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What to do with all those leftovers that surely will be there December 26th? Certainly not throw them out!
For mashed potatoes, try some mashed potato rolls, potato pancakes, or potato croquettes.
For leftover ham, try a ham and cheese quiche for breakfast the next morning, throw some ham into homemade mac 'n cheese, or make a western omelette.
Leftover stuffing? Try these stuffing bites, or this stuffing frittata for brunch.
Was turkey on your menu? As well as the usual turkey a la king and turkey tetrazzini, try making it in a soup.
What are some of your favorite leftover recipes?
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For mashed potatoes, try some mashed potato rolls, potato pancakes, or potato croquettes.
For leftover ham, try a ham and cheese quiche for breakfast the next morning, throw some ham into homemade mac 'n cheese, or make a western omelette.
Leftover stuffing? Try these stuffing bites, or this stuffing frittata for brunch.
Was turkey on your menu? As well as the usual turkey a la king and turkey tetrazzini, try making it in a soup.
What are some of your favorite leftover recipes?
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Thursdays With Linda: Meaning of Christmas
Posted by Unknown on Thursday, December 23, 2010
And there were in the same country shepherds abiding in the field, keeping watch over their flock by night.
And, lo, the angel of the Lord came upon them, and the glory of the Lord shone round about them: and they were sore afraid.
And the angel said unto them,
Fear not: for, behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people.
For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, which is Christ the Lord.
And this shall be a sign unto you; Ye shall find the babe wrapped in swaddling clothes, lying in a manger.And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God, and saying,
Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men.
Merry Christmas From Our Home to Yours…
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All is Calm, All is Bright
Posted by Unknown on Tuesday, December 21, 2010
I don't know how Christmas gets here so quickly, it's not like Hanukah where the date changes every year.
I haven't been overly stressed about how much there is to do, maybe because I've been too busy with work and family demands to really have any extra pyschic energy to expend worrying about things outside my control. I went through a period last week where I couldn't even make up a list, I was that unmotivated about being motivated. Though I had minimal motivation, I kept plugging away, getting things done, sending out Christmas cards, decorating our tree, finishing up shopping, and I felt like it would all work out. Like it was okay to go with the flow, instead of always trying to steer the rudder.
I realize that the holidays, and motivation itself, are really about the attitude, and hopefully the joy, you bring to things, both great and small. It's about digging deep and doing things when you don't want to, or when you are too tired, too sad, or just Over it. Motivation begins with being kind to, and taking care of yourself.
Sending you tidings of comfort and joy all the year through, Martha @ A Sense of Humor is Essential
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I haven't been overly stressed about how much there is to do, maybe because I've been too busy with work and family demands to really have any extra pyschic energy to expend worrying about things outside my control. I went through a period last week where I couldn't even make up a list, I was that unmotivated about being motivated. Though I had minimal motivation, I kept plugging away, getting things done, sending out Christmas cards, decorating our tree, finishing up shopping, and I felt like it would all work out. Like it was okay to go with the flow, instead of always trying to steer the rudder.
I realize that the holidays, and motivation itself, are really about the attitude, and hopefully the joy, you bring to things, both great and small. It's about digging deep and doing things when you don't want to, or when you are too tired, too sad, or just Over it. Motivation begins with being kind to, and taking care of yourself.
Sending you tidings of comfort and joy all the year through, Martha @ A Sense of Humor is Essential
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Tuesdays With Kris: Reasons to be proud of 2010!
Posted by Unknown on Monday, December 20, 2010
Next week I'll share my Goals for 2011, but this week, it's time to share what I'm proud of from 2010!
1. Finishing my FIRST year back to school! Getting another degree in a new field has been tough. Mainly because I've only taken 1 class that really pertains to Web Design in a whole year (which has made me even more impatient), but looking forward to the days when I will really be a computer nerd. Doesn't Authoring III sound fun? Bring it!
2. Going on Vacation! I am so glad that I went to Puerto Rico for over a week. A much needed rest in the sun was definitely a highlight of the year!
3. Working out with a personal trainer! While I only just started about 2 weeks ago (and have not lost much weight, IF ANY), it has helped me realize that the scale is a lying sack of you-know-what since I'm the same weight and my thighs and upper abs are getting super toned!
4. Excelling at my job! While the market is tough, I feel that I am still working on great projects and satisfying everyone's needs.
5. Eating healthier! Oh I have my moments where cheetos are my BFF, but I'm really doing wonders when it comes to getting veggies and fruits in regardless of the munchies.
6. Getting in touch with my spiritual side! I was never an avid church goer, in fact growing up Lutheran really never suited my needs or desires to connect. However, since reading more about nature and spirituality, I guess you could say in a Buddhist sort I way I feel more connected to energy.
7. Going out less! Sounds crazy, but going out less has helped the wallet and my sanity. I hate that feeling of paranoia after going out with the work folk until 3am. I have a big mouth and when booze gets thrown down it along side work people I say really stupid things! Happy to have grown out of that!
8. Keeping close friends closer... I don't have many friends, but I've kept the close one super close this year! You know who you are.
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2. Going on Vacation! I am so glad that I went to Puerto Rico for over a week. A much needed rest in the sun was definitely a highlight of the year!
3. Working out with a personal trainer! While I only just started about 2 weeks ago (and have not lost much weight, IF ANY), it has helped me realize that the scale is a lying sack of you-know-what since I'm the same weight and my thighs and upper abs are getting super toned!
4. Excelling at my job! While the market is tough, I feel that I am still working on great projects and satisfying everyone's needs.
5. Eating healthier! Oh I have my moments where cheetos are my BFF, but I'm really doing wonders when it comes to getting veggies and fruits in regardless of the munchies.
6. Getting in touch with my spiritual side! I was never an avid church goer, in fact growing up Lutheran really never suited my needs or desires to connect. However, since reading more about nature and spirituality, I guess you could say in a Buddhist sort I way I feel more connected to energy.
7. Going out less! Sounds crazy, but going out less has helped the wallet and my sanity. I hate that feeling of paranoia after going out with the work folk until 3am. I have a big mouth and when booze gets thrown down it along side work people I say really stupid things! Happy to have grown out of that!
8. Keeping close friends closer... I don't have many friends, but I've kept the close one super close this year! You know who you are.
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Motivation Monday - Simplifying the Holidays
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I can remember some previous years where I've been so stressed that I got to where I absolutely dreaded holidays and all the work that goes with them. I knew when I got to that point it was time to start simplifying and in a big way!
These days I do what works best for my immediate family. The holidays for us are about being together and being able to rest and relax - a break from our usual very hectic lives. Of course we want our holidays to be special too but we only take on the extras we are in the mood to take on whether it's the shopping, decorating, parties, baking, sending cards, or even cooking. Sometimes we stick with traditions and sometimes we don't. Not feeling pressured to do it ALL has made the ones we do chose so much more enjoyable! This can apply to any holiday not just Christmas.
I know not all celebrate Christmas, but if you will be celebrating are you calm and comfortable with the plans you have for the upcoming week or do you have things you really don't want to deal with? If so think about what you can just let go of or at least do in a more simplified way than usual, think about what really matters.
Take some time to be thankful for all we have this season too. There are so many who will be all alone and/or lonely, children that will go without toys on Christmas morning, people who are out in the cold and homeless, families that will go without food, and countless other situations. If you have the opportunity to do something for someone in need this week, do it. It doesn't matter if it's someone you personally know, a stranger holding a cardboard sign begging for help or anyone in between - it will be the very best gift you can give.
Holiday Hugs all around!
Martha (MM)
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R & R for Sunday, December 19th, 2010
Posted by Unknown on Sunday, December 19, 2010
May Peace be your gift at Christmas and your blessing all year through.
Author Unknown
R and R Tip #28; Remember your map. When we map out our path it is easier to see the way we are headed.
It isn’t enough to sit on the sidelines and hope for things to get better. Make plans to bridge the distance between where you are now and the future you can see so clearly. Define, clarify and implement your plans. With so many things to do and so many places to be, you probably haven't thought about yourself lately.
Plan to put some relaxation and rest into your days. Don’t take on all of the responsibilities of your family’s holiday celebrations by yourself. Share the load. Create some space during the holidays for you to recharge your own batteries.
Instead of thinking in terms of what you can not do, think in terms of what you can do.
After my family left home any big holiday was always celebrated here at my house. There would be weeks of getting everything ready. The spare rooms to make ready for company and lots of food would be bought. Now one of my son's hosts our family gathering as his home is much larger than mine so that relieves me of a lot of work. Those that stay over usually stay with him or my daughter as they have fenced backyards for the grand dogs that also come along for the visit.
As far as food goes we all share the load there. Each brings a dish to share. Desserts, appetizers, meat, side dishes are all prepared and brought over to my son's house. I've got to say that this is a blessing.
For those of you that are younger with family still at home, try to make sure that they help and share in preparing and the cleaning up after too. That is what family is all about anyway. Doing things together makes the work load a lot easier on everyone.
You can face overwhelming challenges, yet still make each day purposeful, by keeping in mind a clear intention of what you want to do. Resolve to stay focused on accomplishing important tasks. Be willing to say No when you are asked to add responsibilities that are not in harmony with your aspirations.
Life is not meant to be a struggle but a balanced and joyful journey.
I do wish you all a Merry Christmas full of relaxed enjoyment and that each and every one of you is blessed with a restful and peace filled holiday celebration.
It isn’t enough to sit on the sidelines and hope for things to get better. Make plans to bridge the distance between where you are now and the future you can see so clearly. Define, clarify and implement your plans. With so many things to do and so many places to be, you probably haven't thought about yourself lately.
Plan to put some relaxation and rest into your days. Don’t take on all of the responsibilities of your family’s holiday celebrations by yourself. Share the load. Create some space during the holidays for you to recharge your own batteries.
Instead of thinking in terms of what you can not do, think in terms of what you can do.
After my family left home any big holiday was always celebrated here at my house. There would be weeks of getting everything ready. The spare rooms to make ready for company and lots of food would be bought. Now one of my son's hosts our family gathering as his home is much larger than mine so that relieves me of a lot of work. Those that stay over usually stay with him or my daughter as they have fenced backyards for the grand dogs that also come along for the visit.
As far as food goes we all share the load there. Each brings a dish to share. Desserts, appetizers, meat, side dishes are all prepared and brought over to my son's house. I've got to say that this is a blessing.
For those of you that are younger with family still at home, try to make sure that they help and share in preparing and the cleaning up after too. That is what family is all about anyway. Doing things together makes the work load a lot easier on everyone.
You can face overwhelming challenges, yet still make each day purposeful, by keeping in mind a clear intention of what you want to do. Resolve to stay focused on accomplishing important tasks. Be willing to say No when you are asked to add responsibilities that are not in harmony with your aspirations.
Life is not meant to be a struggle but a balanced and joyful journey.
I do wish you all a Merry Christmas full of relaxed enjoyment and that each and every one of you is blessed with a restful and peace filled holiday celebration.
See you all next Sunday!
Love, Live, Laugh and Be Happy!
ma
Love, Live, Laugh and Be Happy!
ma
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THE REASON for the SEASON ~ FAITH, LOVE & BELIEVE
Posted by Unknown on Friday, December 17, 2010
So it's only 7 days until Christmas. The big question is what will you do now? Will you stress out? freak out? or relax and enjoy the moment?
In years past I have been known to stress out or freak out, but quite honestly these days I'm the one that will relax and enjoy the moment. May I suggest you do the same?
I truly believe that there is a reason for this season, I try to carry that reason throughout the year in my heart and my actions. Faith. Love and your belief are the most important elements of keeping FAITH, LOVE AND BELIEFS in your life. So, in the spirit of the season I offer you up my favorite Christmas movies and encourage you to take the time to sit and watch them with your kids and family. These movies portray those meanings best. Make a bowl of popcorn, have some eggnog and relax. They are worth it!
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Frugal Fridays With Jen- Ditching The Cable
Posted by Unknown on Thursday, December 16, 2010
We didn't have cable for many years- just the past two in fact. It definitely falls into the "want" category and not the "need" one.
Now that we've had it, and with the DVR to boot, we are finding it hard to give up. We have a Netflix membership, and I frequently use it for live-streaming of movies. Our son is addicted to Nick Jr on demand. Mr S loves his bad sci-fi movies. However, at $70 a month, isn't there a better way to spend our entertainment budget?
My in-laws were very generous and have bought us a Blu-ray player with internet software for Christmas. We can easily link to our Netflix account and live stream the majority of the shows our son likes to watch during his chosen TV time. Not only that, but there's a site called Vudu that allows us to live stream movies on demand- most new releases- directly to our Blu-ray without a subscription. Just pay to play like a Blockbuster or Red Box rental.
We sat down to figure out which shows we really would like to watch. Many of mine are older series available on DVD that I can get from Netflix. I don't watch a million shows, but I do like The Big Bang Theory, Project Runway, the Simpsons, and The Suze Orman Show. I found out I can download the 11 most recent Suze Ormon episodes to my iTunes (a Christmas gift from 4 years ago) for free. I discovered I can buy Project Runway episodes on iTunes as well (at $2.99 per episode- makes me think long and hard whether they are worth that much to watch). The other shows are available on network TV. There are plenty more new and classic TV shows to be found on Hulu as well, for free or a smaller subscription fee. Certainly less than $70 a month.
Mr S more often than not prefers to spend his lazy time playing computer games.
So why are we spending $70 a month?
Our plan, then, is to cut this from our budget by the end of the year. Cable, it seems, may be a dying entertainment media.
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Now that we've had it, and with the DVR to boot, we are finding it hard to give up. We have a Netflix membership, and I frequently use it for live-streaming of movies. Our son is addicted to Nick Jr on demand. Mr S loves his bad sci-fi movies. However, at $70 a month, isn't there a better way to spend our entertainment budget?
My in-laws were very generous and have bought us a Blu-ray player with internet software for Christmas. We can easily link to our Netflix account and live stream the majority of the shows our son likes to watch during his chosen TV time. Not only that, but there's a site called Vudu that allows us to live stream movies on demand- most new releases- directly to our Blu-ray without a subscription. Just pay to play like a Blockbuster or Red Box rental.
We sat down to figure out which shows we really would like to watch. Many of mine are older series available on DVD that I can get from Netflix. I don't watch a million shows, but I do like The Big Bang Theory, Project Runway, the Simpsons, and The Suze Orman Show. I found out I can download the 11 most recent Suze Ormon episodes to my iTunes (a Christmas gift from 4 years ago) for free. I discovered I can buy Project Runway episodes on iTunes as well (at $2.99 per episode- makes me think long and hard whether they are worth that much to watch). The other shows are available on network TV. There are plenty more new and classic TV shows to be found on Hulu as well, for free or a smaller subscription fee. Certainly less than $70 a month.
Mr S more often than not prefers to spend his lazy time playing computer games.
So why are we spending $70 a month?
Our plan, then, is to cut this from our budget by the end of the year. Cable, it seems, may be a dying entertainment media.
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Thursdays With Linda: Christmas Symbols
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Advent Wreath
Four candles placed on a wreath. One candle is lit each Sunday before Christmas in anticipation of Christ's birthday.
Angel
An angel told the shepherds of the birth of Jesus. Angels come in many forms for Christmas decorations including the tree topper.
Bells
Church bells rang to announce the birth of Jesus. They still ring today.
Camels
Camels are the animals the wisemen rode following the star to where Jesus was born.
Candles
Candles represent the light that Jesus brought to earth. Pagans who converted to Christianity used candles on the sacred evergreen tree.
Christmas Cards
For many years, private notes of good tidings were sent at Christmas time. In 1843, Sir Henry Cole had 1000 special designed cards printed. The custom of sending Christmas cards began.
Christmas Caroling
Caroling is a medieval custom of singing and dancing around a Christmas tree. Early carols weren't holy enough for singing inside a church, so caroling was done outside.
Christmas Cookies
Originated with pre-Christian Romans who gave sweet cakes to their senators.
Christmas Seals
A Danish postal clerk sold Christmas stamps (Christmas seals) to show that users had given to a worthy cause.
Christmas Stocking
There is a legend associated with the origin of Christmas stockings. St. Nick, who wanted to remain anonymous and help a poor family, threw gold coins down their chimney. They fell into a stocking that was hanging there to dry.
Christmas Tree Lights
The lights represent Christ as being the "Light of the World." Lights also represent stars. Candles were first used as lights on the Christmas tree.
Creche
A manger scene representing the Jesus' place of birth.
Donkeys, Lambs, and Cows
Donkeys, lambs, and cows were animals close to Jesus at the time of his birth. They are usually part of the Creche.
Evergreen Tree
The evergreen tree was decorated by the pagans at the feast of the winter solstice. The evergreen tree was a sign that winter would end.
Gifts
The first Christmas gifts were given by the Wisemen to Baby Jesus.
Holly
Holly is a shrub with spiny leaves and red berries. The leaves remain green throughout the year. Pagans thought its greenness was a promise that the sun would return. Early French and English families hung holly over their doors to symbolize a home in which Christ's birth is celebrated.
Icicles
Icicles are sometimes used as a tree decoration. As per an old story, the Christ child took shelter for a night under a pine tree. When the tree realized that it was caring for Jesus, tears of happiness fell from its branches. The tears froze into icicles.
Jesus
Christmas is the celebration of the birth of Jesus. Christians believe Jesus is the son of God.
Joseph
Joseph is the husband of Mary.
Manger
A cow's manger is the place where Baby Jesus slept. It is part of the Creche.
Mary
Mary is the mother of Jesus.
Mince Meat Pie
Mince meat pie is full of spices and fruits. It represents the exotic treasures of the East that the Wisemen brought to Jesus.
Mistletoe
A sprig of evergreen plant hung at Christmas time. Custom is that people can kiss each other standing under it.
Plum Pudding
Plum pudding originated by an English king that was stranded in a blizzard one Christmas Eve. He used what he could find to make a special holiday dish.
Poinsettia
This flower was brought to the U.S. by Dr, J.R. Poinsett in 1825. He was the first first United States ambassador to Mexico. Because of its flame leaf, the poinsettia is sometimes called the Christmas Star. A Mexican legend explains how this flower got associated with Christmas.
Reindeer
Reindeer were the animals chosen by St. Nicholas to pull his sleigh. His reindeers' names are Dasher, Dancer, Prancer, Vixen, Comet, Cupid, Donner and Blitzen. Rudolph the Red-nosed Reindeer is the most famous.
Saint Nicholas
Saint Nicholas was a real person. He was a kind bishop who brought presents to children and needy people.
Shepherds
Shepherds tend sheep. They came to the manger to honor Baby Jesus.
Star
The Star of Bethlehem guided the Three Wisemen to Baby Jesus.
Tinsel
There is a legend associated with this thin metalic foil strip decoration. It tells about parents who trimmed a tree while their children were sleeping. Spiders came to see the tree, leaving cobwebs all over it. The Christ Child came to bless the tree and turned the cobwebs to silver.
Three Wisemen
Three Kings travelled far to see Jesus. They brought their best treasures for gifts.
Gold - a precious metal associated with the power of kings
Frankincense - A resin from a rare and sacred tree used as incense
Myrrh - A resin from a shrub used in making perfume.
Wassail
A wassail is a salutation of good health or well wishes by means of a toast. The drink is a mixture of mulled eggs, curdled cream, apples, nuts, and spices. Usually poured from a punch bowl while exchanging Christmas greeings.
Yule Log
The word "yule" means "wheel," a symbol representing the sun. Before Jesus was born, pagans thought the sun stood still for 12 days at the end of the year. A log was cut large enough to burn for this time period to burn away last year's evil.
What symbolizes Christmas for you…
Merry Christmas…
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A Special Place for Santas & Jack Antenna Ball Free to Good Home
Posted by Unknown on Tuesday, December 14, 2010
Welcome to Wednesday at The Motivation Station with your humpday host, Martha@A Sense of Humor is Essential, and Thank you for your visit.
As you can see by the photographic evidence, I am way behind on our decorating.
What is really pleasantly suprising is, the fact that I am not stressed about this.
I have had time to display some much loved treasures including this Lady Peddler Doll and Santa made from a painted gourd. On the left is a Genuine Jack in The Box antenna ball, free to the first commenter who will give it a good home, and I will ship it worldwide.
Dear Linda of Finding Footsteps has a special place for Snowmen, as do I. I really like this Snowman nutcracker, but I also have a special place for Santas, like some of these fellas on our den mantle.
What symbols hold a special place in your heart for the holiday season?
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As you can see by the photographic evidence, I am way behind on our decorating.
What is really pleasantly suprising is, the fact that I am not stressed about this.
I have had time to display some much loved treasures including this Lady Peddler Doll and Santa made from a painted gourd. On the left is a Genuine Jack in The Box antenna ball, free to the first commenter who will give it a good home, and I will ship it worldwide.
Dear Linda of Finding Footsteps has a special place for Snowmen, as do I. I really like this Snowman nutcracker, but I also have a special place for Santas, like some of these fellas on our den mantle.
What symbols hold a special place in your heart for the holiday season?
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Tuesdays With Kris: The Power of The Squat!
Posted by Unknown on Monday, December 13, 2010
I've been working out with a personal trainer lately. Only 4 sessions in and had a vacation in between so I don't have any glowing results for you just yet... However, I have noticed a pattern in my sessions with her: SQUATTING! Whether it's traditional squats, lunges, or any combination... EVERY session I am pretty much squatting and lunging the whole 30 minutes and somehow it's a different type of variation to keep things interesting... and burning!! And when the trainer says that "these will completely reshape your body" you have to just grin and bear it because they really are the super workout! I sweat like CRAZY... I would compare it to Hot Yoga when it comes to sweat... yeah! And I will admit that after doing these for almost 30 minutes my legs are noodles right after (I could fall down stairs) and are sore for at least two days after! Must be that magic workin!
Here are some benefits:
(Read more: http://www.tryingfitness.com/the-benefits-of-squats/#ixzz181qnGRup)
You can do squats at home, at the beach, at the gym, on a bosu ball to add balance into the equation... and while watching The Office!
Take a look at Jillian Michaels workin in those squats and lunges... her ABS are super crazy too!
HAPPY SQUATTING!
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Motivation Monday - Countdown Time
Posted by Unknown on Sunday, December 12, 2010
Have you made your list and checked it twice? Finished shopping? How about decorating, holiday cards, planning and shopping for your holiday menu, finishing up crafts, and how about wrapping those gifts?
I am really behind on things this year, but the one thing I am done with is my shopping. This is the first year I have done it 100% online and I just loved it, don't think I'll ever go back!
Where do you stand this holiday season? Are you one of those who are on top of things - all finished and ready to relax and enjoy the season, or are you a procrastinator who hasn't even started yet, or maybe somewhere in between?
Let's all take a few minutes to sit down and think about what we have to do. Make a list and then get at least one thing crossed off that list today. Yes, this is a CHALLENGE and I want to hear about you progress in the comment section today. Are you with me? Let's do it! :-)
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R & R for Sunday, December 12th, 2010
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As long as we know in our hearts what Christmas ought to be, Christmas is.
Eric Sevareid
R and R Tip #27: Realize the true meaning of the holidays
According to a Greek legend, in ancient Athens a man noticed the great storyteller Aesop playing childish games with some little boys. He laughed and jeered at Aesop, asking him why he wasted his time in such frivolous activity.
Aesop responded by picking up a bow, loosening its string, and placing it on the ground. Then he said to the critical Athenian, Now, answer the riddle, if you can. Tell us what the unstrung bows implies.
The man looked at it for several moments but had no idea what point Aesop was trying to make. Aesop explained, If you keep a bow always bent, it will break eventually; but if you let it go slack, it will be more fit for use when you want it.
People are also like that. That's why we all need to take time to rest.
Before December's madness hits its peak, do some soul-searching on what the holidays really mean to you. In the midst of all the preparations, sometimes we get tangled up in Christmas lights and unrealistic expectations, We often take on too much, then feel anxious and stressed out when reality doesn’t measure up to the flawless fantasy in our heads.
Life, after all, is full of hills and valleys. It’s like we’re each in our own car, travelling through. We don’t stay in the valleys forever…though some people tend to stop their cars and stay in the valleys longer than they should (that’s called giving up and wallowing). Life is up and down. When you’re down, have faith that the up will be coming soon. Start your car and get moving.
When I feel like panicking over holiday stress, whatever its cause,
I’m going to eat chocolate
I’m going to remember my priorities this holiday season
I’m going to fill my mind with good things
All is Calm -- All is Bright
Nothing makes you feel merry and bright faster than seasonal songs, from Winter Wonderland to Silent Night, and with good reason: Research shows that listening to music can crank down stress hormones, lower blood pressure and heart rate, and kick your anxiety to the curb.
Curling up with a good book can be the ultimate winter luxury, but if you don’t have time for an extended tête-à-tête with a novel, try something short and sweet, like a few poems a day, or a couple of pages of Charles Dickens’s A Christmas Carol. A break from the hubbub re-energizes and refocuses you, making you able to avoid holiday stress
Decide on one word that describes the holiday season you want to have this year; it could be Peace, Joy, Love, Family or Serenity. Write it on an index card and tape it to your bathroom mirror. When things get hectic, a glance at your guiding word will remind you of what you really want
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GET IT TOGETHER
Posted by Unknown on Friday, December 10, 2010
It's been a while since we have done one of these here at TMS. For those of you who are somewhat new to TMS you may not know what a GIT Challenge is - GIT stands for Get It Together!
The idea with the GIT Challenge is to play catch up with whatever we need to get done. Just leave a comment saying you'll play along, minimize this post so you can easily come back to it throughout the day, stop what you are doing (meaning get off the computer and stop procrastinating!), take an hour right now to catch up on things you need to do and work as fast as you can!
Come back every hour or two and leave a comment with your progress. Check out what other participants have accomplished - all in the comment section, no blog hopping necessary. After updating, get back to work for another hour or so until you're done for the day. We always accomplish so much during these challenges!
Jump in anytime, there's no special time to start or finish. It's fun working together - join us!
The idea with the GIT Challenge is to play catch up with whatever we need to get done. Just leave a comment saying you'll play along, minimize this post so you can easily come back to it throughout the day, stop what you are doing (meaning get off the computer and stop procrastinating!), take an hour right now to catch up on things you need to do and work as fast as you can!
Come back every hour or two and leave a comment with your progress. Check out what other participants have accomplished - all in the comment section, no blog hopping necessary. After updating, get back to work for another hour or so until you're done for the day. We always accomplish so much during these challenges!
Jump in anytime, there's no special time to start or finish. It's fun working together - join us!
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